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How not to screw up on a corporate party

According to statistics from the SuperJob portal, 16% of companies dismiss one of their employees after a corporate party. Often the fault is inappropriate behavior at the event. Life around asked experts how to avoid such a development of events.

Vera Likhacheva

business trainer

Corporate parties - work rest under the supervision of management. As a sales and personnel director with more than a decade of experience, I know for sure that the bosses make conclusions at the event: do employees have fun, relax, what level of openness and creativity do they have, who is a team player and who is a loner. Many employees do not think about it, but in vain!

It matters how the employee looks, how he behaves, what toasts he makes. If the company is large, then the corporate party is a good occasion to establish relations with managers and the director. Participation in contests is an opportunity not only to prove oneself, but also a chance to be noticed by the whole company. Often at corporate parties, especially in creative companies, there are provocations. For example, in my company there was a tradition - newcomers danced striptease. Who took off the maximum amount of clothing, he received a double salary. Employees have always carefully prepared for such contests: girls put on the maximum number of things and jewelry, men simply beautifully unzipped their shirts to the music. Everything was under control. Until one day on New Year's, one couple took off almost everything. The team was in shock, but continued to watch. And in January, a corporate newspaper was published following the results of the corporate party: the participants in the performance were very embarrassed. Soon, the main character of the show quit our company. Therefore, be careful: a corporate party is not just a friendly party, even if your team is mega-friendly.

Egor Dobrogorsky

CEO of Communicator Creative Events

Choosing what to go to a corporate party in the first place is to clarify whether there is a dress code or theme of the event. If the company organizes a carnival, you may not feel very comfortable in a business suit or jeans. But before you come in a Playboy bunny costume, think about whether you want to be remembered forever by colleagues in this way. If the company is conservative, then at a corporate event a suit or dress in a rather restrained color scheme will be appropriate. Being creative in this situation is not the best idea.

Many corporate employees try to sit around the table. This behavior will also not play into your hands, but will expose you as an uncommunicative and boring clerk. A corporate New Year's party is, first of all, an informal event where employees after a difficult submission of annual reports can rest and unwind. But sometimes even the most serious people in high positions behave inexplicably, leaving behind at a corporate event and raising toasts shouting “Our Crimea!”. I recommend to refrain from such behavior and keep yourself in control. Often, an employee’s career ends at the company's first informal event.

Even if you are not addicted to alcohol, abuse of strong drinks during a corporate feast can play a trick. However, even more bewilderment can cause your refusal to share a couple of toasts with your colleagues. It is no secret that career issues are often resolved after a good joint libation. So the ability to drink rather than get drunk is one of the success factors.

Alexey Kekulov

networking expert

Going to an office party is optional. Finally, remove from your head the stereotype that only the soul of a company can grow up the career ladder. If you still went on a holiday, find out in advance whether there are any written norms and rules in your social environment: how such holidays took place before, what the craziest events took place on it and how it ended for pranksters. And if in some companies the “gray mouse” that got drunk in a zyuza, which raged, hit the director and danced on the tables, just laugh and perceive an interesting show, then in other companies even an innocent slow dance with a colleague may be inadmissible, especially if the colleague’s spouse found out about it. The more you learn stories from past events, the less surprises there will be for you and the more accurately you will determine a winning behavior pattern.

At the same time, think about the means of communication as such, a sufficient amount of cash, a driver’s license, and most importantly, about how it will be convenient to store any new information about colleagues: from numbers and social networks to information about their addictions and pain points. Most often this is a smartphone, but a recorder or a pencil with a notebook may well come down. With them, you can save valuable data, especially in case your memory is turned off the next morning.

At the celebration, you can do everything that others do, especially if you refused, but at the insistence still agreed. At the same time, try to track in time the reaction of colleagues, on whom your career or simply the comfort of the work itself may depend. If at least a little anger, resentment, neglect, irritation or resentment at your actions is read in their eyes - then it's time to change the strategy. Remind yourself that alcohol causes cognitive impairment of brain activity, in other words, "you are knee-deep sea" and "you are inadequate." It will be safer to ask a colleague or friend to insure you with their careful control.

Svetlana Sharoshkina

Kelly Services Candidate Search Center Manager

The corporate event is developed according to the standard scheme: the gathering of guests, which takes up to an hour, the main part of an hour by two, the official end of 20 minutes and afterparty at least until morning. It’s better to arrive on time at the party. Not always "spectacular lateness" (turnout at the time of the solemn part) justifies itself. Most often, the start of a corporate event is associated with the time of gathering guests, a leisurely buffet table and light conversations with colleagues. For those who come to the event alone, this is a great time to decide on the most suitable group of colleagues in their mood, with whom they would like to spend the evening.

In my opinion, prepati requires the presence of sales, marketers, HR and the training department. When, if not now, will you have the opportunity to meet and chat in a leisurely atmosphere with numerous colleagues from various offices? Also, prepati, ideally, is almost the only relevant time for solving minor working issues. Then comes the time of celebration, the celebration of especially distinguished for the year and general fun. Here, employees who have got out on this holiday even from the deepest rush, it makes sense for a while to forget about the difficulties and remember what a wonderful company they work in.

Traditionally, the company leaders open the evening. This is the time for a short (as lucky as anyone) speech with a summary of the year. The main part assumes that the holiday is run, so you can relax and obey the script - communicate, eat, drink, participate in contests (the latter, incidentally, is voluntary). It is necessary to wait for the official end of the holiday at least out of respect for the fellow organizers. After it, you can safely leave the event.

At the afterparty, in general, everything that you consider appropriate is appropriate. It all depends on what kind of relationship you have already developed with your colleagues or you would like to have developed. The general recommendation for this period is to do things that will not be embarrassing the next morning. Corporate event is a positive event, therefore, this is not the place for skeptical discussion of management decisions, colleagues, and indeed heavy thoughts about work. In any case, remember: your bosses are watching you. As for the delicate moments, there is always a way out. We went over with cocktails and you feel that you are ready to colorize the impressions of your colleagues with a topless incendiary dance on the bar counter and boss table - go home urgently. This is a universal way out of all delicate situations, and it is desirable that this happen after the official completion of the event. Let unexpected "discoveries" at the corporate event be positive for you, your colleagues and managers.

Anna Varshavskaya

managing partner of the agency
Iq pro

In our practice, only once was there a case when, due to excessive activity of guests, a serious problem arose. It was a big celebration for 3 thousand people of the mass market company, which brought together representatives from different regions. For a year they competed with each other. Before the evening started, the guests split into groups on a territorial basis and decided to find out the relationship. Despite the increased security at the event, a mass brawl could not be prevented and the holiday was foiled without ever starting.

To work on corporate parties, companies often employ their own security service, which helps prevent any problems - reassure an overly relaxed employee, call a taxi or call the relatives of someone who has not calculated his strength with drinks. Usually, conflict resolution is invisible to most guests.

Do not forget about subordination and do not allow yourself incorrect statements about colleagues or management. If you behave as a well-mannered person from a good family, you will definitely not be mistaken!

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